How to be a good husband and a good father
This article will help you to be and be seen as an ideal husband and father. The only thing that the author of this article can claim is to be a husband and family man himself who sincerely strives to do his best, knowing that he can always improve. This is an area in which we never stop learning.
Be a good husband
Trust your wife
Remember that she is and will continue to be responsible for many important things in your life. You have to trust him.
Love your wife
It is also important to be able to love your wife for all that she brings to you as well. You, her husband, are no more and no less important than she as an individual. This means that you should not give more or less importance to your person than you give to them. If you’ve given yourself too much importance over her without realizing it, stop. If she’s the one who tends to be subservient, tell her and make her stop. 
If you doubt her integrity, as inevitably happens at some point or another when two people spend a lot of time together, it’s important to have an open-hearted conversation with your wife. Address issues as they arise.
Realize the sacrifices she makes for your relationship
While she may very well make concessions for the sake of your marriage, it’s up to you to make sure that she doesn’t make sacrifices one-sided or without you noticing. You must return the favor and make sure that his efforts are rewarded. Only you know how you can go about it, but you have to.
Support her if those are the roles you have chosen
If it’s your job to provide for your family, then you have to. It is your first duty and those for whom you support should not feel obligated by it.
Think about how you can behave in a more human or even more magnanimous manner
The tips above are by no means the only things to do. They are simply meant to help you live a satisfying married life if you take them seriously and apply them.
Be a good father
Take responsibility for the well-being of your children from the day they are born and do so with a good heart. A father should never blame one of his children for his gender, the color of his skin, or anything else, whether the child is his biological or adopted child. If a father feels this kind of prejudice, then he is immediately and automatically deprived of the ability to be a good father.
You don’t have to meet your child’s every wish
Just get him what will be most useful to him without putting you in financial difficulty.
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Be consistent in the way you engage with your child
A good father should be prepared to make sacrifices for the welfare of his child. If the child has to spend time away from the home for his education or something else, the father can endure the separation and he should use it wisely. When, on the contrary, the father is with his child, his time, his attention, his patience, and his advice are what he has most precious to give to his child. He should never be reluctant to offer her these things.
Testify and receive trust
The best way to measure a man’s ability to be a good father is in the trust the child has in him. It is therefore essential to never betray a child’s trust.
Be a role model, not a best friend
A child is not a partner. Your child needs you to provide him with food, medicine, toys, etc., but also that you pass on your wisdom, strength, and goodwill. It will happen naturally, you just have to want it.
Do not hesitate to draw inspiration from the advice given above
Remember that you can be the father you want to be, you just have to decide.
- Learn to say no and say yes, but especially learn when to say yes and when to say no. Make a sincere effort to achieve it.
- Learn to be friendly when you need to.
- Learn to respect others as you would yourself.
- Always remain open to suggestions and criticism.
- Positively take everything. It’s difficult, but the result is worth it.
- never tolerate something imposed on you. No one has the right to force anything on you. If this is happening, you are letting it happen, consciously or not.
- Always make informed decisions.